Enedina and Ruben Martinez California Dear Birthmother Adoption Letter

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Hello, we are Enedina and Ruben!

Our hearts, thoughts, and prayers are with you as you carefully plan your child's future. Choosing a family for your baby takes extreme courage and love. We can only admire your strength as you make your decision.

THANK YOU for stopping to read our letter and giving us this opportunity to share a little about ourselves. Our hope is that through this letter you will get to know and feel comfortable with us before you entrust us to raise and love your child as our own. We would love to take this journey of a lifetime together.

Children have always been important in our lives. We cherish our roles as aunt and uncle, our nieces and nephews are such a big part of our lives. Our child will join in on the fun things we already enjoy… playing tag at the park, baking cookies, having pillow fights, or simply playing catch or tug-of-war with our family dog (Roman).

About Us...

We are blessed with a wonderful marriage. We met in college fourteen years ago and next spring we will celebrate our tenth year wedding anniversary. Our life is full of love, laughter, and joy.


Our annual camping trip

We share a lot in common. Both of us grew up speaking Spanish and English at home, which we will proudly teach our child as well. We want our child to learn and experience our diverse and rich Mexican-American culture, such as celebrating birthdays with piñatas and singing at posadas during Christmas time. We feel fortunate to have been raised in two cultures and look forward to sharing our Mexican and American culture with our child. Just like our moms, Enedina will have the joy of being a stay-at-home mom when we become parents.

Thank You!

We look forward to sharing our happy life with a child. We are committed to opening our hearts and home to you and hope to build a committed relationship. All of this will be done based on the level of comfort you feel after getting to know us. We welcome your calls to answer any questions. Please call us toll free at 1-800-484-2678, then press pin #7457, use our easy email form to send us a message (or ennnem@aol.com). You may also contact our adoption counselors at the Independent Adoption Center at 1-800-877-OPEN (6736).


Santa (Ruben) and Ene

About Ene…

"Ene is my best friend. She is the most loving and caring person that I have ever known. She loves to bake and decorate delicious cakes for our nieces' and nephews' birthday parties. Ene's patience and huge love for children have made her an excellent bilingual elementary school teacher for the past eight years.

She constantly buys books for her nephews/nieces and has eagerly been preparing a collection for our child. I have seen the contributions she has provided to her students’ lives since many of them keep in close contact with her. She's excited about doing fun-filled activities with our child such as playing music, creating arts and crafts, as well as making play dough from scratch. I can't wait to see her make gingerbread houses with our child! She's a beautiful wife and will make a loving mommy!"


Ruben and our Godson, Kevin


About Ruben…


"I am fortunate to have such a loving, kindhearted husband like Ruben. He is a wonderful, humorous, and outgoing person who is always there for me, as well as for his family and friends. He is the kind of man you can trust and rely on for anything.

Ruben loves nature and enjoys the outdoors. His first nature hike with our child will be most memorable. Our child will have as much fun with Ruben as our nephews and nieces. When Ruben rolls on the ground with them or carries them on his back and gives them piggyback rides, they giggle and shout for more! Our nephews and nieces love to play with him. Ruben is an admirable role model with leadership qualities, who is devoted to his family. He has been a Law Enforcement Officer for the past eleven years and currently works in the same town that we live. I feel safe and comfortable knowing I can reach him in a moment's notice."


Fun at Chuck E. Cheese's

Our Adventures…

We believe in living life to the fullest. We have enjoyed vacations together as well as with our families and friends. Our trips have included adventures such as: swimming with the dolphins in Hawaii, reaching the top of the Aztec pyramids in Mexico, and soaking our feet in water streams at the Redwoods, Yosemite, and Burney Falls. We have also raced to see Mickey at Disneyland and often visit our favorite zoo located in San Francisco. We can't wait to share these places with our child.


Celebrating Ruben's brother's wedding

Our Home…

We live in a comfortable home in the small town of Windsor, California, which is located one and a half hours north of San Francisco and a short drive to the coastal Redwood Trees. We have nice weather throughout the year. Our neighborhood is friendly, quiet and a wonderful place to raise children. Our child will enjoy his/her own room overlooking Mt. St. Helena and the park where our neighborhood children gather around to play.


Our home is your home

Family and Friends…

We are truly thankful to have close families and friends. We enjoy daily interaction with them as well as celebrating birthdays and holidays together. Ruben has five siblings and Ene has eight. An extended family composed of many aunts, uncles, and intimate friends will surround our child with a sense of community, unconditional love, and guidance. Some of our favorite family activities include: swimming at our neighbor's pool, BBQ gatherings, and going to theme parks like Marine World. On special occasions we cook tamales, listen to mariachi music, and attend our Catholic Church festivals. Our family and friends are excited about us adopting a baby, and our parents can't wait to hold him/her in their arms!


Ene's family

Please call us toll free at 1-800-484-2678, then press pin #7457, use our easy email form to send us a message (or ennnem@aol.com). You may also contact our adoption counselors at the Independent Adoption Center at 1-800-877-OPEN (6736).

View our family photo slide show!

                                

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